Kirsten Williams,
Psychologist & Child Psychotherapist
The Grove Psychology Practice
The Gardens Medical Centre
Exploring Cognitions in EMDR
Sometimes, past experiences can shape the way we see ourselves in ways we don’t always notice.
These beliefs can be encouraging and supportive, or they can be heavy and self-critical.
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In EMDR therapy, we sometimes explore these patterns by looking at positive (supportive) and negative (unhelpful) cognitions — short statements that capture how we might feel about ourselves deep down.
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Supportive Beliefs About the Self
(examples)
I am worthy.
I can learn and grow.
I am in control now.
I am good enough.
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Unhelpful Beliefs About the Self
(examples)
I am powerless.
I am not good enough.
I am unsafe.
I cannot trust myself.​​​​

Explore More​
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View the EMDR Cognitions List (PDF)
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A simple list of common unhelpful (negative) and supportive (positive) beliefs used in EMDR therapy. You can use it to notice which beliefs may feel familiar for you and which might feel possible to grow toward over time.
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Including practical tools, reflective exercises, and strategies to support your therapy process.
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